Lake Winnipesaukee

Yet ANOTHER incredible weekend. 

Carving pumpkins, sledding, engagment photoshoot, Alfred Hitchcock, Bob Wiley, sleepovers, chocolate popcorn, homemade sushi, holding hands, casual kissing (cough, cough...Shelby...), and miracles.

Aiga.

The past four days have been some of the best days I've had in quite a while. 

It's been a good reminder that I am TRULY lucky to live the life that I do. I'm constantly surrounded by people who uplift me and are shining examples of Christ-like living.

Family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. I am so grateful for the time I got to spend with my wonderful family. It is a rare, beautiful occasion when all four of us are together.

And thankfully, it didn't just stop at the four of us being home to spend time together, two of my mom's sisters were in town staying with us. So I got to see aunts, uncles and cousins too. [Could I ask for more??]

Meet my cousin Ross. This kid is the definition of QUALITY ENTERTAINMENT.

I also got to spend time with a family-to-be. 

My dear friend, and current roommate Hannah Abbott, will soon be married to Nathan Hartshorn.

They asked me to do some engagement photos for them, and I gladly obliged. All I can say about it is that it was perfect. After spending the afternoon with those two I realized that I eventually want what they have. 

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they listen to everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. 

When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. 

There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. 

The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. 

Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. 

In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. 

You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even storm cloud. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure. Pleasure so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life. 

  

                                    

                         

"LOVE was made for me and you."
I'm so happy you two found each other. And I'm so excited to see where life takes you. Thanks for being such wonderful examples and friends to me.


OH. 
And one more wonderful thing about this weekend...
My mission papers are done. 

Let it all begin.

Imagination. Creativity. Work.

"Do you have a blog?"

"No."

"WHY NOT??"

"What's the point?... It's just another way for me to waste time on the computer."

"...But it's a way to be expressive and creative with your thoughts. It's not like Facebook or Twitter. I feel like you would LOVE it. And yours would be STELLAR to read, I just know it."

1 YEAR LATER

Well. Thanks to Miss Shelby Alyse Frampton I have a blog.

After years and years of reading/stalking/following [whatever the term is these days] blogs I finally decided to start one up.

[I know, I know. And to think I claimed to be a creative, artsy, mormon girl WITHOUT a Blog.... tisk, tisk. NOW I can properly play the part.]

. . . 

The Name

What's with the name? Well, as we were setting up the blogger account last night Shelby asked, "What do you want the name of your blog to be?"... Since I had no ideas and no energy to think a title up on the spot... I glanced up at her bookshelf and caught sight of a book entitled Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain. 

There you have it folks.

But while we're on the subject of brain hemispheres... According to the theory of left-brain or right-brain dominance, each side of the brain controls different types of thinking. People are said to prefer one type of thinking over the other. A person who is "left-brained" is often said to be more logical, mathematical, analytical and objective, while a person who is "right-brained" is said to be more intuitive, creative, thoughtful and subjective. So does one side of the brain really control specific functions? Are people either left-brained or right-brained?

I'm no scientist, but I'd say yes.

I'm a right-brainer. I'm an artist. And I'm stimulated by creativity . 

Creativity is at the heart of success. It finds expression in beautiful visual art, wonderful music, solid performances, stunning writing, profitable businesses, awesome new products and countless other mediums. 

Pablo Picasso once said, "Others have seen what is and asked why. I have seen what could be and asked why not.”

Well said, Pablo. 

I think that to some extent we all imagine what we truly want. And imagining is the beginning of creating. Therefore through this formula we can make our desires a reality. 

Imagination + Creativity + Work = Success.

Productive work is the process by which thought and creativity control our existence. It's a constant process of acquiring knowledge and then shaping matter to fit our purposes, translating an idea into physical form. A process of remaking the earth in the image of one's values--that all work is creative work if done by a thinking mind. Whereas no work is creative if done by a robot who is satisfied copying others...Our work is ours to choose, and the choice is as wide as our mind.

Aside from being a portal to success, our ability to be creative, to be different, original, innovative, visionary, and inspired is something that makes life worth living and even joyful.

To be creative means to be in love with life. You love it so much that you want to enhance its beauty, you want to bring attention to the little things that people wouldn't normally notice at all.

In short, don't underestimate the power of 

The Right Side of the Brain.